In the far-reaching conversation between John Vervaeke, Iain McGilchrist and Daniel Schmachtenberger, Iain makes the following point, which I’ll paraphrase:
We need to notice the things that draw us from the front, not just the things that push us from behind.… Values are an example of something that pulls us forward - towards something greater than ourselves.
This comes up often in coaching too.
At first, the idea rarely lands. Why?